Have fun. Play. Every day.

Go down the sliding board. Get on the seesaw. Play tag with your retriever and let your cat chase you while you scamper around dragging a piece of ribbon on the floor like prey. Do things where the end result isn’t anything in particular so you can let go of being focused on producing something “worthwhile.” A laugh that makes your belly hurt is worthwhile.

Playing means: enjoying an activity for the fun of it, not for the end result. That makes “play” different from sticking religiously to an exercise routine, or letting your competitive side take over and turn a game of kickball into some sort of gladiator blood-sport. It’s doing stuff – so watching other people “play” a sport for money isn’t play. It might be fun, but it’s not play.

If you have a pet or a child in your world, it’s easier. Follow their lead for five minutes or a whole lot more.

Go have fun. Go out and play.

Dr. Lori Puterbaugh

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